Ok guys so today I thought it was important for me to lay my cards on the table and share how I've been feeling of late, we have all been there and even the strongest have a breaking point. I truly appreciate all your comments and love, I just wanted to put this out there before I come back to youtube xoxoxox
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Luvisaccharine -October 20th, 2016 at 3:18 pmnone
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yay she’s backk!
London Afro Vegan Recipes -October 20th, 2016 at 3:18 pmnone
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Yay great subject ok let me watch x
Luvisaccharine -October 20th, 2016 at 3:18 pmnone
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‘Comparison is the thief of joy”
The Fashion Blogger ♡ -October 20th, 2016 at 3:28 pmnone
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The Internet is such a wonderful place to interact with people….but at
the same time it is a thing that can bring someone to become very insecure.
Some post their daily lives on social media which may make them seem
perfect and others will aspire to be the perfect person that is impossible
to achieve! Thank you for being so honest & open with us <33
Salmana gomes so -October 20th, 2016 at 3:35 pmnone
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we all humana you are more than allowed to feel down … like you said we
all just have to use that and came out on the other side😘😘
London Afro Vegan Recipes -October 20th, 2016 at 3:36 pmnone
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That comment about you going on holiday was disgusting. Regardless of the
preconceptions people like to put on you you’re human like the rest of us
just glad to hear you’re doing alright. Loving your hair 👌
Anastasia S -October 20th, 2016 at 3:38 pmnone
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Watched your snapchat in class!! Rushed to the cafe to watch this, thank
you so much for this video. Thank you so much for this video, really. It
feels great to relate to this with my friends I usually encourage and happy
person, but then my sister had to go through chemo. I found a wall that I
couldn’t talk to my friends about it or anyone. I felt like I was loosing
the person I was most close to. They didn’t even know she had this terrible
disease, glory to God she overcame it, but I still feel so stripped from
that whole experience. I felt like if I expressed sadness I would lose the
people I loved. Again thanks for this video
Kundai Benhura -October 20th, 2016 at 3:47 pmnone
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That hair
Patriciiiiiiiiia!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Jazmin Rose TV -October 20th, 2016 at 3:48 pmnone
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thank God you’re sister overcame it – God is good!! I can’t begin to
imagine how you felt x
Jackie Hidalgo -October 20th, 2016 at 3:58 pmnone
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Square peg, raise you hands! ✋🏾
Thank you for being so open and honest, Patricia. I’m going through a
similar season where I need to keep my thinking focused and correct because
it can be challenging to not be down on yourself and speak negatively about
current circumstances. But when a season is ordained, it’s up to us to push
through and come out better than ever! Looking forward to seeing what you
have up your sleeves. You’re a hard working woman, and you are truly
blessed! ❤️
Jackie Hidalgo -October 20th, 2016 at 3:59 pmnone
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Btw, love the hair! 😍
Oyin lola -October 20th, 2016 at 4:01 pmnone
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proverbs 23:7 what a man thinkest in his heart, so is he. as hard as it may
sometime seem, do think positive and rebuke the negative thoughts.
Remember, greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
#Godislove .
Kundai Benhura -October 20th, 2016 at 4:01 pmnone
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You are not alone😣Thank you for this.
stephanie adu -October 20th, 2016 at 4:04 pmnone
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Patriciaaaa!! This touched me on the deepest level and honestly I have
struggled with insecurity so much. I’m a Christian myself and I know I’m
made in God’s image and to His likeness but gosh, sometimes it’s hard! I
just thank you because I can relate to this but I have more motivation to
put this to a stop. I adore you honestly and I hope the best for you. Keep
going strong love 💪💪
stephanie adu -October 20th, 2016 at 4:07 pmnone
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Also you are so incredibly beautiful (the hair slaaays) and you’re my
biggest black role model. I grew up in a predominantly white place and you
have just inspired me to learn to love myself and embrace my heritage and
honestly you always slay. I know the comments in your head might be bad but
honestly you’re so pretty I cant even deal! Love you ❤
1990sTiffany -October 20th, 2016 at 4:27 pmnone
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I think Youtube, Instagram and other platform puts forth a false sense of
perfection, it’s easy to be insecure. Our real lives are not these finely
curated feeds. There will always be naysayers. Keep flourishing, dear! 💗
Haleb forevahh -October 20th, 2016 at 4:55 pmnone
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I struggle with that mentality of never being good enough/doing something
well enough. For example, if I ace a test, I will just be like “yeah okay,
that’s good” but if by any chance doesn’t come out as well as it should’ve,
I’m so so hard on myself. And I know that it’s okay to not always be on the
top of your game, but when it comes to it, I just can’t get over that
mindset. It makes life extremely difficult honestly, and it’s very tiring.
According to Greta -October 20th, 2016 at 5:13 pmnone
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practice personal development🌹
Patricia Bright -October 20th, 2016 at 5:28 pmnone
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Haleb forevahh it’s so exhausting when you don’t think you are good enough
but the best thing to do it’s just spend more time enjoying the good things
you have achieved
JustLynn2015 -October 20th, 2016 at 5:42 pmnone
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London Afro Vegan Recipes that comment WAS absolutely disgusting.
Completely out of line and unnecessary. ….. stupid people 😾
Eva Lasting -October 20th, 2016 at 5:46 pmnone
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You are in too deep.
I remember commenting about this on that random video you made about
organising closets literally days after you had your baby.
You feel like you are not enough because you are not creating enough space
and time to enjoy the things that you do have.
Insecurity manifests itself when we don’t sit with ourselves long enough to
hear the parts of ourselves that matter most.
And I get it, you have a high-energy personality and you are the type who
basically can do everything and anything very well, but just because you
can, doesn’t mean you should. Less really is more and more mostly lessens
us. Self-care is critical and social media fatigue is real.
You are a beautiful, strong woman with a sweet daughter and a loving and
supportive husband.You have built a thriving business. You don’t have
anything to prove. Take the time to start learning how to fall back and
wallow in the bounty of your life.
Grace will only vaguely sense your insecurity now, but later she will watch
you, then pattern you. If you don’t take the time to ready yourself to
provide her with the most authentic version of yourself, how unfortunate
would that be?
Youtube and your subscribers will be here when you get back.
Fall back now, so you stand firmer in your future.
All the very best to you..
Simply Handmade -October 20th, 2016 at 5:56 pmnone
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AMEN!
Damilola Adedeji -October 20th, 2016 at 6:19 pmnone
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On the other side … We’re comparing ourselves to you
nadie1mayascuz -October 20th, 2016 at 6:24 pmnone
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+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
Maxine's Corner -October 20th, 2016 at 6:24 pmnone
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you all made wonderful points. I love YT but Patricia is right.
nadie1mayascuz -October 20th, 2016 at 6:24 pmnone
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+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
nadie1mayascuz -October 20th, 2016 at 6:24 pmnone
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+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
Maxine's Corner -October 20th, 2016 at 6:24 pmnone
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yes. amen
Maxine's Corner -October 20th, 2016 at 6:27 pmnone
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+nadie1mayascuz yes I agree. spread the love.
Naiade33 -October 20th, 2016 at 6:32 pmnone
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It think you deserve way MORE subscribers. Keep inspiring us😊
S Bee -October 20th, 2016 at 6:43 pmnone
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YouTube is a very shallow place let’s be honest although there are many
pros the cons are we always feel like we need to look good (or as good as
the next person on YT) people always showing off what they buy etc this is
why everyone on this “YouTube game” is getting depression/anxiety.
Fouseytube, itsmyrayray, travisbased and a whole bunch more. I’m just
waiting on pewdiepie to come out and say his got anxiety or something like
that cause lord knows how he deals with the pressure lol but anyways God
bless I’ll keep you in my prayers
Lisa O -October 20th, 2016 at 6:44 pmnone
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God bless you for this video. I’ve been depressed and crying all day. This
video has come at the most perfect time for me. Thank you, it’s helped me a
lot today.
grace gody -October 20th, 2016 at 6:54 pmnone
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Lisa O hey Lisa, praying for you sweetie. God loves you xx
liseg89 -October 20th, 2016 at 6:54 pmnone
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S Bee true. YouTube as progressive as it is has created a seriously
dangerous culture of comparison especially for us young women. I pull back
every couple weeks and take a break from even watching.
Minty Paul cooking and vlogs -October 20th, 2016 at 7:08 pmnone
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Maxine’s Corner hiii xx
Maxine's Corner -October 20th, 2016 at 7:15 pmnone
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+Minty Paul cooking and vlogs hi!
Ollie and Tay -October 20th, 2016 at 7:28 pmnone
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Lisa O aww hope you get better soon x
Lisa O -October 20th, 2016 at 7:31 pmnone
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+grace gody thank you so much I highly appreciate it! God bless you too.
Adeeba Deterville -October 20th, 2016 at 7:35 pmnone
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You are brilliant. I’m 54 and I remember the self-doubt of the 20s.
Whatever stage of life you’re in is exactly where you’re suppose to be. Be
kind to yourself. You don’t need to do anything but be YOU. It’s your
authenticity that draws people to you…up. down. happy.sad…being
HUMAN…being Patricia…being a creation of divine love. So proud you of
and you living in your truth! Nothing remains the same – life is all about
change and growth. It’s so beautiful to watch you come into womanhood!
Sending you love and light and a hug.
LoveLaRieXO -October 20th, 2016 at 7:40 pmnone
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Kundai Benhura it’s probably from her hair/wig company 💁🏾👏🏾
Chocolat Galore -October 20th, 2016 at 8:41 pmnone
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girl lol you looking goooood
Mahali Selepe -October 20th, 2016 at 9:03 pmnone
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Damilola Adedeji I know right!!??? I been comparing myself to her thinking
I can’t start frequent posts on my channel coz I ain’t good as she is!
😂😂😀
BigHenFor -October 20th, 2016 at 9:20 pmnone
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Adeeba Deterville Amen!
cathy -October 20th, 2016 at 9:27 pmnone
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Naiade33 she is genuine and real
Pastel Pastry -October 20th, 2016 at 9:29 pmnone
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1990sTiffany Very true and people need to understand that people on
instagram only post ehat they WANT to post. Those instagrammers dont post
picture and videos of how they work for what they have or how they get
their money(some do illegal stuff ☕🐸)
Even some of these “relationship goals” couples are not even goals in real
life. Some are only there because they look good together and have no
feelings to each other. Some of these girls boyfriends even abuse them so
people shoukd never compare themself with people. Instagram and real life
is not the same. (sorry for my bad english, i hope i make sense)
Mia Anderson -October 20th, 2016 at 10:48 pmnone
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Patricia, I hope you will read this. “The fear of man brings a snare but
whoever puts his trust in the Lord shall be safe.” Proverbs 29:25 That is
what I tell myself.
strictlystarlight -October 20th, 2016 at 11:09 pmnone
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This video made my day. Thank you for your honesty and uniqueness. Feeling
like this is human nature. It would be unnatural to not feel insecure. For
me Started new job 7months ago thinking I was working 100% then to be told
my method was incorrect really cut be and self doubt is high. When I
reflect I felt no this was wrong ….its my way cos I was not told
otherwise and I fed this back to manager….I digress. What I feel is
people would like to cut your positivity by comparing people. My parents
used to do it so I think through childhood this happens to us. However when
you rise above it you feel stronger like you mentioned in your testimony.
So if this is to happen again you’ve got the tools to attack it. Mine is
prayer and a good moan. Can’t beat a moan and rant to release this
pressure. Please take care of yourself and thanks see you on the next video
😇
Tia B -October 20th, 2016 at 11:39 pmnone
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Chocolat Galore she is truly gorgeous.
Francesca Mboua -October 21st, 2016 at 12:08 amnone
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Amen!!!
Ocee Jay -October 21st, 2016 at 12:41 amnone
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+Tayla-Lee Barnard you’re very kind lol
Simple Annalisa -October 21st, 2016 at 12:54 amnone
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Sending you a huge hug! Get well and one day at the time one smile at the
time ❤️
Simple Annalisa -October 21st, 2016 at 1:04 amnone
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Damilola Adedeji more than comparing I draw inspiration from her ❤️
Simple Annalisa -October 21st, 2016 at 1:07 amnone
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1990sTiffany do they ever! Totally agree… I actually recently touched on
the topic of a “filtered reality”! You are very right.
Damilola Adedeji -October 21st, 2016 at 1:57 amnone
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Tayla-Lee Barnard your comment really made my day! Thank you💕
Ana Notoa -October 21st, 2016 at 3:18 amnone
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Eva Lasting Wow!
Hadijatou Bah -October 21st, 2016 at 3:48 amnone
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Eva Lasting best comment ever
Tayla-Lee Barnard -October 21st, 2016 at 3:49 amnone
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+Damilola Adedeji Good I’m glad:). x
Stacey1234 -October 21st, 2016 at 4:43 amnone
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Organizing and cleaning is a form of coping.
Stacey1234 -October 21st, 2016 at 4:47 amnone
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On another note, isn’t everyones body super perfect on Youtube, no matter
the shape? Like dang these girls bodies are crazy, I’ve seen people leave
hating comments about that but that is social media.
One of my friends only posts photoshopped pics of herself, people need to
realize that this is the norm on social media.
Stacey1234 -October 21st, 2016 at 4:47 amnone
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Agree, positive energy, I love it.
Black To Grace -October 21st, 2016 at 5:22 amnone
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Haleb forevahh I think it’s common for high achievers to be self critical.
It can drive you to be better but uncontrolled can also cripple you.
Joana bbl (ReceitasFitness) -October 21st, 2016 at 5:24 amnone
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best comment!!
Living Thedream -October 21st, 2016 at 5:48 amnone
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So true! Sometimes the Millions of Followers or Subscribers, means nothing
when your Mind is not thinking the right thoughts. x
missbeckyus079 -October 21st, 2016 at 5:50 amnone
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Eva Lasting you just spoke to me! glad I read this comment. thank you.
Sheena Wright (SheTravels) -October 21st, 2016 at 6:43 amnone
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Seriously!! What gives people the confidence to be so nasty on the internet?
GVOM -October 21st, 2016 at 6:46 amnone
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I hope Pat sees this comment!
Pinocicci -October 21st, 2016 at 9:33 amnone
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Sometimes crying is good for healing. Let it out and when you’re ready and
able, pick yourself up from whatever is hurting you and forge forward.
Bless you sweetie xxx
yay she’s backk!
Yay great subject ok let me watch x
‘Comparison is the thief of joy”
The Internet is such a wonderful place to interact with people….but at
the same time it is a thing that can bring someone to become very insecure.
Some post their daily lives on social media which may make them seem
perfect and others will aspire to be the perfect person that is impossible
to achieve! Thank you for being so honest & open with us <33
we all humana you are more than allowed to feel down … like you said we
all just have to use that and came out on the other side😘😘
That comment about you going on holiday was disgusting. Regardless of the
preconceptions people like to put on you you’re human like the rest of us
just glad to hear you’re doing alright. Loving your hair 👌
Watched your snapchat in class!! Rushed to the cafe to watch this, thank
you so much for this video. Thank you so much for this video, really. It
feels great to relate to this with my friends I usually encourage and happy
person, but then my sister had to go through chemo. I found a wall that I
couldn’t talk to my friends about it or anyone. I felt like I was loosing
the person I was most close to. They didn’t even know she had this terrible
disease, glory to God she overcame it, but I still feel so stripped from
that whole experience. I felt like if I expressed sadness I would lose the
people I loved. Again thanks for this video
That hair
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thank God you’re sister overcame it – God is good!! I can’t begin to
imagine how you felt x
Square peg, raise you hands! ✋🏾
Thank you for being so open and honest, Patricia. I’m going through a
similar season where I need to keep my thinking focused and correct because
it can be challenging to not be down on yourself and speak negatively about
current circumstances. But when a season is ordained, it’s up to us to push
through and come out better than ever! Looking forward to seeing what you
have up your sleeves. You’re a hard working woman, and you are truly
blessed! ❤️
Btw, love the hair! 😍
proverbs 23:7 what a man thinkest in his heart, so is he. as hard as it may
sometime seem, do think positive and rebuke the negative thoughts.
Remember, greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
#Godislove .
You are not alone😣Thank you for this.
Patriciaaaa!! This touched me on the deepest level and honestly I have
struggled with insecurity so much. I’m a Christian myself and I know I’m
made in God’s image and to His likeness but gosh, sometimes it’s hard! I
just thank you because I can relate to this but I have more motivation to
put this to a stop. I adore you honestly and I hope the best for you. Keep
going strong love 💪💪
Also you are so incredibly beautiful (the hair slaaays) and you’re my
biggest black role model. I grew up in a predominantly white place and you
have just inspired me to learn to love myself and embrace my heritage and
honestly you always slay. I know the comments in your head might be bad but
honestly you’re so pretty I cant even deal! Love you ❤
I think Youtube, Instagram and other platform puts forth a false sense of
perfection, it’s easy to be insecure. Our real lives are not these finely
curated feeds. There will always be naysayers. Keep flourishing, dear! 💗
I struggle with that mentality of never being good enough/doing something
well enough. For example, if I ace a test, I will just be like “yeah okay,
that’s good” but if by any chance doesn’t come out as well as it should’ve,
I’m so so hard on myself. And I know that it’s okay to not always be on the
top of your game, but when it comes to it, I just can’t get over that
mindset. It makes life extremely difficult honestly, and it’s very tiring.
practice personal development🌹
Haleb forevahh it’s so exhausting when you don’t think you are good enough
but the best thing to do it’s just spend more time enjoying the good things
you have achieved
London Afro Vegan Recipes that comment WAS absolutely disgusting.
Completely out of line and unnecessary. ….. stupid people 😾
You are in too deep.
I remember commenting about this on that random video you made about
organising closets literally days after you had your baby.
You feel like you are not enough because you are not creating enough space
and time to enjoy the things that you do have.
Insecurity manifests itself when we don’t sit with ourselves long enough to
hear the parts of ourselves that matter most.
And I get it, you have a high-energy personality and you are the type who
basically can do everything and anything very well, but just because you
can, doesn’t mean you should. Less really is more and more mostly lessens
us. Self-care is critical and social media fatigue is real.
You are a beautiful, strong woman with a sweet daughter and a loving and
supportive husband.You have built a thriving business. You don’t have
anything to prove. Take the time to start learning how to fall back and
wallow in the bounty of your life.
Grace will only vaguely sense your insecurity now, but later she will watch
you, then pattern you. If you don’t take the time to ready yourself to
provide her with the most authentic version of yourself, how unfortunate
would that be?
Youtube and your subscribers will be here when you get back.
Fall back now, so you stand firmer in your future.
All the very best to you..
AMEN!
On the other side … We’re comparing ourselves to you
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
you all made wonderful points. I love YT but Patricia is right.
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
yes. amen
+nadie1mayascuz yes I agree. spread the love.
It think you deserve way MORE subscribers. Keep inspiring us😊
YouTube is a very shallow place let’s be honest although there are many
pros the cons are we always feel like we need to look good (or as good as
the next person on YT) people always showing off what they buy etc this is
why everyone on this “YouTube game” is getting depression/anxiety.
Fouseytube, itsmyrayray, travisbased and a whole bunch more. I’m just
waiting on pewdiepie to come out and say his got anxiety or something like
that cause lord knows how he deals with the pressure lol but anyways God
bless I’ll keep you in my prayers
God bless you for this video. I’ve been depressed and crying all day. This
video has come at the most perfect time for me. Thank you, it’s helped me a
lot today.
Lisa O hey Lisa, praying for you sweetie. God loves you xx
S Bee true. YouTube as progressive as it is has created a seriously
dangerous culture of comparison especially for us young women. I pull back
every couple weeks and take a break from even watching.
Maxine’s Corner hiii xx
+Minty Paul cooking and vlogs hi!
Lisa O aww hope you get better soon x
+grace gody thank you so much I highly appreciate it! God bless you too.
You are brilliant. I’m 54 and I remember the self-doubt of the 20s.
Whatever stage of life you’re in is exactly where you’re suppose to be. Be
kind to yourself. You don’t need to do anything but be YOU. It’s your
authenticity that draws people to you…up. down. happy.sad…being
HUMAN…being Patricia…being a creation of divine love. So proud you of
and you living in your truth! Nothing remains the same – life is all about
change and growth. It’s so beautiful to watch you come into womanhood!
Sending you love and light and a hug.
Kundai Benhura it’s probably from her hair/wig company 💁🏾👏🏾
girl lol you looking goooood
Damilola Adedeji I know right!!??? I been comparing myself to her thinking
I can’t start frequent posts on my channel coz I ain’t good as she is!
😂😂😀
Adeeba Deterville Amen!
Naiade33 she is genuine and real
1990sTiffany Very true and people need to understand that people on
instagram only post ehat they WANT to post. Those instagrammers dont post
picture and videos of how they work for what they have or how they get
their money(some do illegal stuff ☕🐸)
Even some of these “relationship goals” couples are not even goals in real
life. Some are only there because they look good together and have no
feelings to each other. Some of these girls boyfriends even abuse them so
people shoukd never compare themself with people. Instagram and real life
is not the same. (sorry for my bad english, i hope i make sense)
Patricia, I hope you will read this. “The fear of man brings a snare but
whoever puts his trust in the Lord shall be safe.” Proverbs 29:25 That is
what I tell myself.
This video made my day. Thank you for your honesty and uniqueness. Feeling
like this is human nature. It would be unnatural to not feel insecure. For
me Started new job 7months ago thinking I was working 100% then to be told
my method was incorrect really cut be and self doubt is high. When I
reflect I felt no this was wrong ….its my way cos I was not told
otherwise and I fed this back to manager….I digress. What I feel is
people would like to cut your positivity by comparing people. My parents
used to do it so I think through childhood this happens to us. However when
you rise above it you feel stronger like you mentioned in your testimony.
So if this is to happen again you’ve got the tools to attack it. Mine is
prayer and a good moan. Can’t beat a moan and rant to release this
pressure. Please take care of yourself and thanks see you on the next video
😇
Chocolat Galore she is truly gorgeous.
Amen!!!
+Tayla-Lee Barnard you’re very kind lol
Sending you a huge hug! Get well and one day at the time one smile at the
time ❤️
Damilola Adedeji more than comparing I draw inspiration from her ❤️
1990sTiffany do they ever! Totally agree… I actually recently touched on
the topic of a “filtered reality”! You are very right.
Tayla-Lee Barnard your comment really made my day! Thank you💕
Eva Lasting Wow!
Eva Lasting best comment ever
+Damilola Adedeji Good I’m glad:). x
Organizing and cleaning is a form of coping.
On another note, isn’t everyones body super perfect on Youtube, no matter
the shape? Like dang these girls bodies are crazy, I’ve seen people leave
hating comments about that but that is social media.
One of my friends only posts photoshopped pics of herself, people need to
realize that this is the norm on social media.
Agree, positive energy, I love it.
Haleb forevahh I think it’s common for high achievers to be self critical.
It can drive you to be better but uncontrolled can also cripple you.
best comment!!
So true! Sometimes the Millions of Followers or Subscribers, means nothing
when your Mind is not thinking the right thoughts. x
Eva Lasting you just spoke to me! glad I read this comment. thank you.
Seriously!! What gives people the confidence to be so nasty on the internet?
I hope Pat sees this comment!
Sometimes crying is good for healing. Let it out and when you’re ready and
able, pick yourself up from whatever is hurting you and forge forward.
Bless you sweetie xxx