Ok guys so today I thought it was important for me to lay my cards on the table and share how I've been feeling of late, we have all been there and even the strongest have a breaking point. I truly appreciate all your comments and love, I just wanted to put this out there before I come back to youtube xoxoxox
yay she’s backk!
Yay great subject ok let me watch x
‘Comparison is the thief of joy”
The Internet is such a wonderful place to interact with people….but at
the same time it is a thing that can bring someone to become very insecure.
Some post their daily lives on social media which may make them seem
perfect and others will aspire to be the perfect person that is impossible
to achieve! Thank you for being so honest & open with us <33
we all humana you are more than allowed to feel down … like you said we
all just have to use that and came out on the other side😘😘
That comment about you going on holiday was disgusting. Regardless of the
preconceptions people like to put on you you’re human like the rest of us
just glad to hear you’re doing alright. Loving your hair 👌
Watched your snapchat in class!! Rushed to the cafe to watch this, thank
you so much for this video. Thank you so much for this video, really. It
feels great to relate to this with my friends I usually encourage and happy
person, but then my sister had to go through chemo. I found a wall that I
couldn’t talk to my friends about it or anyone. I felt like I was loosing
the person I was most close to. They didn’t even know she had this terrible
disease, glory to God she overcame it, but I still feel so stripped from
that whole experience. I felt like if I expressed sadness I would lose the
people I loved. Again thanks for this video
That hair
Patriciiiiiiiiia!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
thank God you’re sister overcame it – God is good!! I can’t begin to
imagine how you felt x
Square peg, raise you hands! ✋🏾
Thank you for being so open and honest, Patricia. I’m going through a
similar season where I need to keep my thinking focused and correct because
it can be challenging to not be down on yourself and speak negatively about
current circumstances. But when a season is ordained, it’s up to us to push
through and come out better than ever! Looking forward to seeing what you
have up your sleeves. You’re a hard working woman, and you are truly
blessed! ❤️
Btw, love the hair! 😍
proverbs 23:7 what a man thinkest in his heart, so is he. as hard as it may
sometime seem, do think positive and rebuke the negative thoughts.
Remember, greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
#Godislove .
You are not alone😣Thank you for this.
Patriciaaaa!! This touched me on the deepest level and honestly I have
struggled with insecurity so much. I’m a Christian myself and I know I’m
made in God’s image and to His likeness but gosh, sometimes it’s hard! I
just thank you because I can relate to this but I have more motivation to
put this to a stop. I adore you honestly and I hope the best for you. Keep
going strong love 💪💪
Also you are so incredibly beautiful (the hair slaaays) and you’re my
biggest black role model. I grew up in a predominantly white place and you
have just inspired me to learn to love myself and embrace my heritage and
honestly you always slay. I know the comments in your head might be bad but
honestly you’re so pretty I cant even deal! Love you ❤
I think Youtube, Instagram and other platform puts forth a false sense of
perfection, it’s easy to be insecure. Our real lives are not these finely
curated feeds. There will always be naysayers. Keep flourishing, dear! 💗
I struggle with that mentality of never being good enough/doing something
well enough. For example, if I ace a test, I will just be like “yeah okay,
that’s good” but if by any chance doesn’t come out as well as it should’ve,
I’m so so hard on myself. And I know that it’s okay to not always be on the
top of your game, but when it comes to it, I just can’t get over that
mindset. It makes life extremely difficult honestly, and it’s very tiring.
practice personal development🌹
Haleb forevahh it’s so exhausting when you don’t think you are good enough
but the best thing to do it’s just spend more time enjoying the good things
you have achieved
London Afro Vegan Recipes that comment WAS absolutely disgusting.
Completely out of line and unnecessary. ….. stupid people 😾
You are in too deep.
I remember commenting about this on that random video you made about
organising closets literally days after you had your baby.
You feel like you are not enough because you are not creating enough space
and time to enjoy the things that you do have.
Insecurity manifests itself when we don’t sit with ourselves long enough to
hear the parts of ourselves that matter most.
And I get it, you have a high-energy personality and you are the type who
basically can do everything and anything very well, but just because you
can, doesn’t mean you should. Less really is more and more mostly lessens
us. Self-care is critical and social media fatigue is real.
You are a beautiful, strong woman with a sweet daughter and a loving and
supportive husband.You have built a thriving business. You don’t have
anything to prove. Take the time to start learning how to fall back and
wallow in the bounty of your life.
Grace will only vaguely sense your insecurity now, but later she will watch
you, then pattern you. If you don’t take the time to ready yourself to
provide her with the most authentic version of yourself, how unfortunate
would that be?
Youtube and your subscribers will be here when you get back.
Fall back now, so you stand firmer in your future.
All the very best to you..
AMEN!
On the other side … We’re comparing ourselves to you
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
you all made wonderful points. I love YT but Patricia is right.
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
+The Fashion Blogger ♡ Keep spreading love, I appreciate people such as
yourself x
yes. amen
+nadie1mayascuz yes I agree. spread the love.
It think you deserve way MORE subscribers. Keep inspiring us😊
YouTube is a very shallow place let’s be honest although there are many
pros the cons are we always feel like we need to look good (or as good as
the next person on YT) people always showing off what they buy etc this is
why everyone on this “YouTube game” is getting depression/anxiety.
Fouseytube, itsmyrayray, travisbased and a whole bunch more. I’m just
waiting on pewdiepie to come out and say his got anxiety or something like
that cause lord knows how he deals with the pressure lol but anyways God
bless I’ll keep you in my prayers
God bless you for this video. I’ve been depressed and crying all day. This
video has come at the most perfect time for me. Thank you, it’s helped me a
lot today.
Lisa O hey Lisa, praying for you sweetie. God loves you xx
S Bee true. YouTube as progressive as it is has created a seriously
dangerous culture of comparison especially for us young women. I pull back
every couple weeks and take a break from even watching.
Maxine’s Corner hiii xx
+Minty Paul cooking and vlogs hi!
Lisa O aww hope you get better soon x
+grace gody thank you so much I highly appreciate it! God bless you too.
You are brilliant. I’m 54 and I remember the self-doubt of the 20s.
Whatever stage of life you’re in is exactly where you’re suppose to be. Be
kind to yourself. You don’t need to do anything but be YOU. It’s your
authenticity that draws people to you…up. down. happy.sad…being
HUMAN…being Patricia…being a creation of divine love. So proud you of
and you living in your truth! Nothing remains the same – life is all about
change and growth. It’s so beautiful to watch you come into womanhood!
Sending you love and light and a hug.